Everything Is an Event: How Intention, Energy & Connection Shape the Experiences That Define Us

choose on purpose Apr 13, 2026

There are conversations that give you ideas…
& then there are conversations that shift how you see your entire life.

My interview with Marinda Freeman, author of Everything Is an Event, was one of those.

Because what she teaches isn’t just about events.

It’s about how you think.
How you create.
How you connect.
& ultimately...how you live.

Everything Is an Event (Yes, Even This Moment)

At one point in our conversation, Marinda said something that reframed everything:

“Everything is an event. This is an event right now on the podcast.” -Marinda Freeman

Let that land.

Not just the big celebrations.
Not just the weddings, retreats, or galas.

Your morning coffee is an event.
Your conversations are events.
Your leadership moments are events.

Which means…

👉 Every moment is an opportunity to create connection, intention, & experience.

You Can’t Invite Money… You Invite People

One of the most powerful shifts Marinda teaches is around purpose.

So many people approach events (& life) backwards.

We focus on outcomes:

  • The money
  • The results
  • The logistics

But she said something that stopped me in my tracks:

“You can’t invite money to a party… you invite people.”

& people don’t show up for logistics.

They show up for:

  • Connection
  • Energy
  • Experience

This applies to everything:

  • Your business
  • Your community
  • Your leadership
  • Your relationships

When you focus on connection first, everything else follows.

Fun Is the Energy of Attraction

Let’s talk about something most people overlook.

Fun.

Not surface-level fun.
Not distraction.

But intentional joy.

Because as Marinda shared:

“Fun is the energy of attraction.”

You’ve felt this before.

You walk into a room and instantly know:
“This is fun.”

There’s no sign on the door.
No checklist explaining it.

It’s energy.

& here’s the truth most people miss:

👉 That energy is not accidental.
👉 It can be designed on purpose.

 

You Are Always Creating an Experience

Whether you realize it or not…

You are always creating an atmosphere.

In your:

  • Home
  • Business
  • Conversations
  • Community

Marinda describes it as an “energy bubble” that people walk into.

& that bubble is shaped by:

  • Your intention
  • Your thoughts
  • Your presence

Because:

“People will not forget how you make them feel.”

That’s the real takeaway.

Not what you said.
Not what you did.

But what they felt in your presence.

Order Creates Peace (Not Limitation)

One of the most surprising insights in our conversation was around structure.

Many women resist structure because they think it limits creativity.

But Marinda reframes it beautifully:

“Order creates greater calm and peace of mind.”

& from that place?

You think clearly.
You create freely.
You lead powerfully.

Without structure, you’re scattered.

With structure, you’re supported.

 

Your Thoughts Are Designing Your Life

This is where the conversation went deeper.

Beyond events… into identity.

Marinda shared:

“You are designed for living… woven by the pattern of your thoughts.”

Read that again.

Your life isn’t random.

It’s a reflection of:

  • What you think
  • What you focus on
  • What you believe

Which means…

👉 You are not just experiencing life.
👉 You are designing it.

Connection Is Why We’re Here

At the heart of everything Marinda teaches is one truth:

We are here to connect.

With ourselves.
With others.
With something greater.

She shared:

“We are already connected… we are already one.”

& when we remember that…

We stop performing.
We start relating.
We begin to create from truth.

 

This Is Bigger Than Events—It’s a Way of Living

This conversation isn’t just for event planners.

It’s for:

  • The woman building a business
  • The leader creating community
  • The mother shaping her home
  • The creative designing her life

Because everything you do…

Is an event.

& you get to decide:

👉 Will it be intentional?
👉 Will it be connected?
👉 Will it be aligned?

 

🎙️ Listen to the Full Episode

This conversation goes so much deeper than what you’ve read here.

If you’re ready to:

  • Think differently about your life & leadership
  • Create more meaningful experiences
  • Lead with intention, energy, & purpose

🎧 Listen to the full episode with Marinda Freeman on:
YouTube | Spotify | Apple Podcasts

 

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